Have you had any STDs in the past six months?

If a person has an active sexual life, chances are that they might have had STDs that they probably overlooked. Politely redirecting the attention towards this might save both of you from stepping into anything rash and unexpected.

You don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend, do you?

This is not funny. You have to make sure that you are not getting into something that might come back to haunt you, despite you having a great time with them.

Though it was consensual if your partner had lied about their existing relationship, it will weigh heavy on your conscious, even when it's not your fault.
So, it's best to clear the air when there is a chance.

Are you on any form of birth control?

Birth control medicines still put on side-effects on one's hormones, and it is considered best to stay away from intercourse. It's best to know that you're not doing any harm to someone, physically, mentally or emotionally.

Which sexual activities/fantasies do you want to engage in?

Yup, here's the kinky stuff. To be a better sexual partner, you, sometimes, have to fulfill your partner's desires and fantasies. And you never know, you might enjoy it with them. Trust me, everyone has a secret sexual fantasy, and to see it come true makes them feel accomplished.
You might or might not be comfortable with these fetishes, but for once, let the experience make your mind.

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