When you are shy or an introvert, it’s downright painful to have to talk to someone you like or have a crush on. Heck, on most days, it’s a challenge to talk to anyone besides your four-legged BFF. You are torn between a strong desire to talk to them and the urge to do anything and everything to avoid being seen; diving under the closest table and army crawling away as quickly as possible doesn’t sound like too bad of an idea.
Unfortunately, for the shy girl, guys tend to think she’s either uninterested or an awkward Kardashian wannabe. Now guys, how do you know if the girl you are into is actually shy or if she really is just an uninterested snot? This is a tough one but definitely not impossible to figure out.
There are certain nuances in a shy girl’s actions and behavior that will definitively let you know who you are dealing with. This will save you from dismissing a girl that could potentially be the love of your life or protecting you from dating your next psycho ex-girlfriend.
We are going to take a good in-depth look at things only a shy girl will do. You will become an expert at recognizing a shy girl.
What do you do if you discover that a shy girl is interested in you? Shy girls are rare precious gems. They are keen observers, impeccable listeners, and can carry on some pretty good conversations too. If you find out that a shy girl is interested in you, pursue it. It might seem daunting if you are used to having girls fall at your feet in admiration and aggressively pursue you, but trust us and go for it. Once she learns that she can trust you, you will see an entirely different side to her.
15. Mr. Invisible
The shy girl will try her best to avoid looking at you. She won’t want to draw your attention. She’ll pretend that she doesn’t notice you but in reality she’s likely trying her best to control the butterflies in her stomach. She enjoys noticing you, but only from afar (for now).
If you were to catch her eye, she would probably have to run to the bathroom to throw up. The best thing you can do is be direct with her and reach out. You are definitely going to have to make the first move because she will not. But it will be worth it in the end.
14. Awkward
A shy girl being awkward? Nooooo. Really? So, being awkward isn’t a huge surprise but there is actually a little bit of a distinction here. Shy girls will be awkward but they will be especially more awkward if there are other people around. She is usually most comfortable if it’s just the two of you because she can focus on what you are saying as well as focusing on controlling her nerves. Add other people around and she loses her ability to focus and/or control her anxiety.
She could be slightly nervous and stumbling over her words when it’s just the two of you but then become even more nervous when you throw extra people into the mix. Stumbling over her words turns into absolute silence. Any direct eye contact she had with you will disappear. You’ll notice an increase in fidgeting with her hands, hair, pencil, etc.
With a girl that’s uninterested in you, she will actually become more comfortable and exhibit less shyness when more people are around.
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