I am Edith Vicoy Malanog, 50 years old, and have been a member of the Brotherhood of Christian Businessmen and Professionals, BCBP, Siquijor Outreach for 9 years. My husband, Rocky, is an Overseas Filipino Worker, a seaman, and is away most of the time leaving me behind to cope with life’s daily struggles. I may not belong to the generics of influential people needed for the advancement of the mission of the BCBP but I would like to share how, in my own little way, I do my part living as a Christian wife and member of the BCBP, all with the help of the Lord.
Wives of overseas contract workers who left behind to take care of everything at home, wives who are missing the comfort and happiness of being with their husbands, wives whose loneliness is compensated with much financial support are very much susceptible to temptations in their struggle to survive. This is the kind of life I have been living, and I am so thankful to God for His guidance in making my life an avenue of service for the glory and honor of His name … through the BCBP community where I am an active member of the secretariat and the Intercessory Ministry of our Siquijor Outreach, and through our parish where I serve as a member of the Mother Butler’s Guild and as a member of the choir.
In my desire to serve the Lord and his people, at one time I entered politics. Little did I realize that being in politics would lead me to take a path not in consonance with the values that I espoused as a member of the BCBP Community. Not until I ran for councilor and lost did I realize this. I thanked God for rescuing me from the evils of our local politics, thereby paving the way for me to have more time to be more active in the BCBP, the Mother Butler Guild, and our parish choir. Although it’s physically tiring, the Lord gives me joy and peace of heart, knowing that this is my humble way of showing other wives of OFWs a way to be strong in the face of temptations by being closer to the Lord through His service.
In Rocky’s absence, I was left to face alone all our problems, especially the financial ones. Being a wife of a seaman working abroad is not a bed of roses financially. We have had our fair share of ups and downs. I have learned to swallow all my pride to save all my pride. At one time I was accused of mismanaging our finances by no other than my husband’s own relatives. This happened just after I had had a close encounter with the Lord in the BCBP so that instead of reacting negatively to all these hurting accusations, I lifted them up to the Lord and in His goodness, He let His love come into their hearts and peace come into my heart. This was my simple way of bringing Christ into my marketplace.
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