To begin with, this article, let's imagine a scenario. It has been quite long since you last dated someone, and it's about time that you're ready to move on. Or even if you haven't ever been with anyone. Either way, you get matched up with someone extremely compatible with you, and you two hit it off on the first date.

And now, the two of you are in each other's company and ready to take things to the bedroom. But before hopping into the bed, are you sure there aren't some things that you'd be better off getting cleared between you two?

I know, asking questions before making love can be a major buzzkill - but when your health and your relationship are at stake, there are certain measures to be taken seriously. But what are these questions? And how can we ask them without turning it into an interrogation? Read on to find out:

Do you have any objection using a protection?

This is the most direct question that can easily be spoken up about, without really destroying the tempo of the sensual build-up.  And it is most important to ask, for the precautionary safety of both of you.

Have you ever tested positive for a sexually transmitted disease?

This sounds straight-forward but understandable. I'm certain that talking about STD's will not be helpful for the mood, but you must set the possibilities aside for the either of you have a bad first experience.

How many partners have you had since you last checked?

Though it might sound invasive, this is not a question to judge someone's character. This is the part where you have to be careful about coming off as rude.

To ask such invasive questions, you can simply start by sharing your own answers before asking your partner. They might open up to you and share. It's necessary for you to be sure that you don't start off with something that'd turn out to be an unhealthy experience.

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