ARE YOU AFRAID TO TALK TO YOUR PARTNER ABOUT THE IMPORTANT STUFF?

We're not talking about whose turn it is to take out the garbage. If you're hesitant to tell your partner about what's really weighing on your mind—which might include things they're doing (or not doing) in the relationship—watch out, says Jane Reardon, a Los Angeles-based therapist who treats individuals and couples with relationship issues.

“Let’s face it, it’s not always easy to confront someone you care so much about," she says. "But when couples opt for keeping it comfortable instead of keeping it real, I hear a death knell ringing" for the relationship.

DOES YOUR PARTNER ONLY CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES?

You might not have realized it in the beginning, but over time a narcissist's true personality traits will be revealed. “When you're with a narcissist, there will only be one person who matters, and it won't be you," says therapist and couples counselor Evie Shafner. 

A narcissist will try to manipulate or guilt you into meeting their needs while ignoring yours. "They mostly talk about themselves and aren't really responsive to what's going on with you. And the biggest issue is that they have no empathy,” says Shafner.

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