DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING RIGHT?

If you're working overtime to please your partner yet getting nowhere, you probably never will.

“Making someone feel like they can't do anything right can be a serious sign of psychological abuse,” says Shafner. “Your partner is supposed to be your biggest cheerleader, a soft place to land. If they're not, buyer beware—and love yourself enough to leave.”

ARE THEY SELFISH IN BED?

Although sex is only one part of your relationship, it's usually a pretty important one. And a partner who treats you poorly in the bedroom is unlikely to be kind in other areas of the relationship.

“Guilt-tripping a partner into having sex when they don't want to or ignoring a partner's need for pleasure might be signs that you should end things," says Hershenson.

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ARE YOU OR YOUR PARTNER OVERWHELMED WITH JEALOUSY?

“This can show up as constantly having to account for your whereabouts and who you are with,” says Lesli Doares, a couples consultant and coach. “Everything you do must not just include them, but revolve around them. You might find it easier to either lie—and, when your lies are uncovered, everything blows up anyway—or you choose to stop having a life, friends, and interests of your own because the price is too high.” In either case, it's hardly a sign of a healthy relationship.

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